16 April 1986: A Conversation about Intimate Relationships with South African Students
Thursday, April 17, 1986, 12:00 noon Kloofwaters Farm in the Magliesberg Range west of Pretoria with geography students from the University of the Witwatersrand Time for a few lines before lunch. About a dozen students are lying in the grass close by listening to a Bill Cosby tape. I continue to be amazed by Cosby’s popularity in South Africa. I listened in on an interesting conversation among these students last night. One male student asked if the women thought affairs were ever justifiable and what they would think if they were seeing a guy regularly and found out he was married. I know that most young women are conservative about these things but their responses were straight out of the 1950s. Statements like, “I hope that if a guy made a commitment to me, he wouldn’t look at the first floozy that came along” and other comments about the moral fiber of society. I sat there innocently smiling and biting my lip as they continued on ...